NYC ⚜︎ The Hamptons

The attorney-led concierge.

Girl with a Car, Roving Butlers, unique concierge

I run the day-to-day of your life: your complex errands and your emergencies. Swiss standards.
One woman, one Bronco (for now). I am the one they call: leave it with me.

Other concierges have a call center. An attorney-led concierge has a law license and a name on the line.

Crisis calls answered within 6 hours, or sooner depending on urgency. Every other request, by close of business.

Retainers from $15,000 a month · Crisis management from $3,500 · Errands from $500 an hour

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The Hamptons marsh at moonrise
You arrive. The house has already been opened.
Attorney-led concierge

Some of the world’s most powerful and its wealthiest people trusted me with highly sensitive projects and information. Now I bring that same discretion to yours. You are not hiring an assistant, and I am not your driver: where you need one, I arrange a licensed driver. You are retaining a New York attorney with twenty years’ experience to run the practical side of your life. I plan the work, and it is done to my standard: by me, or by a small circle of trusted people I have vetted and supervise. I run Girl with a Car™ myself, and as the work grows, I add people before I add clients, never after.

“Chance favors only the prepared mind.”
Louis Pasteur

A Hamptons summer that runs smoothly is planned the autumn before. The houses to be opened, the arrivals and departures, the guests, the calendar: each is simple when it is thought through early, and a scramble when it is not. If next summer matters to you, begin the conversation now.

For now, I am based in Manhattan, and that is where I work. I am ready to make the run to the Hamptons and back, every day if you need it.

What I actually do

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Once, only great houses had a household staff of people they could trust. I am making that service available to anyone who needs it, led by a New York attorney.

I am the Chief Operating Officer (COO) of your life.

Two ways to work with me. Crisis management, when something cannot wait, from $3,500. A monthly retainer, when you want me in charge of the details, from $15,000 a month. For a single errand or a single day, I work by the hour, from $500. What follows is what that looks like.

Crisis management and The Complex Errand, in NYC and the Hamptons. The problem that cannot wait and cannot be delegated, and the errand that cannot be missed.

Examples include but are not limited to:

  • ⚜︎A vanished contractor, or an NDA that must be reviewed today.
  • ⚜︎You are sick in bed, new to NYC, and your parents are a thousand miles away: chicken soup from your favorite deli forty blocks off, plus your remedies and magazines.
  • ⚜︎You are in meetings all day, and tonight’s dinner party needs the bottles that only one far-off liquor store sells.
  • ⚜︎The donut shop in the Village you are craving, or the open-air food markets you never have a Saturday to visit: I go for you.
  • ⚜︎Paperwork, notaries, embassies and your advisers, handled quietly.

I take it on personally, and it is done before you need it.Crisis management from $3,500 · Errands from $500 an hour

New York City. Manhattan is my home base, and I work here every day. While you are at the office, in meetings, or sick in bed with no one to help, I run your life.The Urban Essentialist · from $15,000 a month

The Fresh Start. You are new to NYC, here for your BA, MBA, JD or MD, or new to the country. Or you are getting your first apartment after years of roommates, or starting over after a divorce. I get you set up, so your first weeks are about your new life and not about finding a pharmacy, a grocery and everything the apartment still lacks.The Everyday · from $500 an hour

The Care Package. You are at work and cannot drive to your child’s boarding school. I bring the care package, or the thing they must have today.The Everyday · from $500 an hour

The Family. School, medical and household needs, with every person vetted by me.The Urban Essentialist · from $15,000 a month

The Hamptons, and the road between. Your house open and ready before you cross the bridge. And when you are out on the East End and the dress for tonight’s party is hanging in your New York City closet, I collect it, along with whatever else the city has that you need, and deliver it in time. Or you are planning a dinner party in NYC and need the produce from one particular farm on the East End: I drive out and bring it back before your guests arrive.The Seasonal Core · from $25,000 a month

The Global Migrator. For families and family offices moving across borders. I plan the whole move, abroad or back, with a second route for every step.The Global Migrator · from $150,000 a month

The errands change every day. How I do them never does.

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A summer's day on Cooper's Beach
Your summer, planned the autumn before.
The Empire State Building
The Empire State Building, from where I plan your day.

The one they call

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Complex matters, several at once, across borders and time zones: that is what I do best.

A landlord dispute. A contractor who has vanished. A document or visa problem abroad. A vendor who will not refund. A contract gone wrong, a counterparty who will not pay, a negotiation at a standstill, a cross-border deal that needs an experienced hand. Start-up documents, too: an NDA that must be reviewed quickly, before you sign.

People ask how I stay so calm when a problem gets ugly. I have no choice. This is how I operate. I have solved a great many hard problems, for myself and for others, and you will never read about them. That is the point.

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Chaos navigation

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I spent fifteen years in the Gulf managing legal work, projects and people across the region and around the world, often against a backdrop of political upheaval: governments shifting, plans changing by the hour, deadlines that would not move. I became an expert at what I call “chaos navigation.” Every job begins with one question: what could go wrong? I plan for it, build a second route, and keep it quiet. By the time you would have noticed a problem, it has been handled. When I moved to the Gulf, the learning curve was vertical, and it was sink or swim. I swam. That is where I learned risk mitigation: what a big move abroad takes, and what breaks when no one plans it.

A second route for everything. Backup vendors, backup dates, backup drivers.
Written down. Every client’s standing instructions are on file, so the work continues without a gap.
Capacity, capped. I add people before I add clients, and I will tell you when I am full.
Discretion by design. A written scope, vetted people only, and nothing about you ever posted.

Always charming, never rude.

Who is behind the wheel

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Sonya Shaykhoun, Esq.
Sonya Shaykhoun, Esq.

I am a native New Yorker, raised on the Upper West Side, with summers in Southampton on Cooper’s Beach. At fourteen I had a summer job on Jobs Lane to pay for the riding gear I needed to ride in the Hampton Classic. I know the Hamptons the way you know a place you grew up in.

I am a member of the New York Bar, with twenty years of international experience across the Gulf, London and New York City. I was educated at top schools in New York City and the UK, and I earned a “PhD in Street Smarts” in the Gulf. My time there was formative, as a lawyer and in my understanding of hospitality, discretion, and what it means to be trusted with valuable projects or ideas. I once represented myself in Qatar, in Arabic, and won. After fifteen years living and working in the Gulf, I am glad to look after Gulf businesses, diplomats and visitors when they are in New York and the Hamptons.

You might wonder why a lawyer is behind the wheel. The idea came to me in the car. After I returned the Kona to the dealer, I spent months turning over how to be an entrepreneur and bring together everything I do well and love to do. Then it arrived all at once, and my first thought was that I could have done this during COVID, when times were so hard. I did not. I am doing it now.

This is the first season, and I am doing it myself, with a small circle of trusted people. Girl with a Car™ is a start-up. As it grows, I grow the team and adjust, as I always have, always under my supervision and to the standard I set. The standard stays mine. I smile easily. I do not bend.

شرّفتونا

The Gulf taught me a word, sharaftouna: “you have honored us.” It is what a host says when a guest arrives, and it is the standard I bring to every client.

Lady of the Manor of Hele Satchville, Devon. A manorial title, not a peerage. Contracts first, discretion always.

My father used to tell my younger sister, “Do everything like Sonya.” I have been the family’s manager ever since. I was not born unflinching. I earned it, one hard room at a time, and I trust myself now.

When things get ugly, I do not flinch. When it is complicated, they call me.

Credentials and experience

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Admitted
Member of the New York Bar, admitted 2008. Twenty years of international experience across the Gulf, London and New York City.
Practice
Corporate and commercial law and compliance. Multi-million and multi-billion-dollar contracts, handled for global companies.
Degrees
The Dalton School in New York City. St. Stephen’s School in Rome. University of St Andrews. SOAS, University of London: BA in Arabic and Law, and LL.M. in Corporate and Commercial Law. University of Sussex: LL.M. in Corruption, Law and Governance.
The Gulf
Fifteen years in the Gulf, including global legal operations for Al Jazeera Media Network in Doha, with a portfolio of 125+ bureaux around the world.
Languages
English, Arabic and French.
“I have known Sonya for 40 years, and she is an excellent and trustworthy individual.”
Kate Ledogar, artist and childhood friend
“The guidance she offered was clear and accessible. She presented the right questions and her insights were incredibly valuable. She helped me be confident in the path that I chose to move forward with.”
Nate Shalev, on a contract engagement

What it costs

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Every engagement begins with a clear scope and a price, agreed before any work is done and confirmed in writing. Payment is made in advance. Work outside the agreed scope, third-party costs, travel and after-hours requests are confirmed in writing before we begin.

You are paying for my judgment, my discretion and my tested global experience, not a vendor’s hours.

You are paying for who I am now: the result of a world-class education, challenges that tempered me like steel, and a proven record managing sensitive, high-value matters on a global scale.

Fuel and mileage are included. Tolls, congestion pricing and parking are billed at cost and itemized.

The Urban Essentialist
Recurring oversight in Manhattan. By application. Paid quarterly in advance.
from $15,000 a month
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I read every application myself and reply within one business day.
The Seasonal Core
Your season, run for you: the Hamptons summer, the winter holidays, or both. Peak summer from $50,000 a month. Paid quarterly in advance.
from $25,000 a month
Apply for The Seasonal Core
I read every application myself and reply within one business day.
The Global Migrator
For family offices and households that move across borders. Paid quarterly in advance.
from $150,000 a month
Apply for The Global Migrator
I read every application myself and reply within one business day.
The Everyday
Two-hour minimum ($1,000), booked and paid in advance. No application or retainer. Fuel and mileage are included; tolls, congestion pricing and parking are extra, billed at cost.
from $500 an hour
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Crisis management, short notice
First three hours, paid in advance. Corporate matters upon request. I reply within 6 hours, or sooner depending on urgency. If it is very urgent, please call +1 929-996-5662.
from $3,500

How it begins

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A free 15-minute call. You tell me what you need. I tell you plainly whether I am the right fit.
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The Executive Intake, $1,500. A 60-minute operational assessment. It is credited toward your first retainer if you engage within 48 hours.
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A written scope and price. Agreed before any work begins. I take on only as many clients as I can serve personally. I add people before I add clients. If I am full, I will say so. My written scope states when I act as your attorney and when I act as your concierge. Every request is answered according to its urgency, and always by close of business.
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Questions

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Can I trust you?

That is the right question to ask someone who will hold your keys. I am a New York attorney, admitted in 2008, with an LL.M. in Corruption, Law and Governance from the University of Sussex, and my license and my name are on the line every day. I am held to the bar’s standards of conduct. Your confidences stay behind a steel wall. Everyone who works with me is vetted and supervised by me. Everything is in writing before any work begins. And you can check what I say: my admission is public record, and I am glad to give you references.

Are you giving up the law?

No. I am a New York attorney and I remain one. The law is the reason this works. I run the practical side of your life the way a chief operating officer runs a company: I plan, I anticipate what could go wrong, and I hold the details so you do not have to. Think of me as the chief operating officer of your life, with a law license.

What if you get sick?

Then the work does not stop. Every job is on a written scope, so a trusted person from my circle can pick it up, and I supervise from wherever I am. Legal matters I never delegate: I reschedule them with you. You hear from me directly, and the standard does not change.

What if I send you ten errands on Monday, in different parts of the city? You are one person with one car.

Then I plan, and I tell you the truth. Nothing begins without a conversation and a written scope, so I never take on more than I can do well. I sequence the day by urgency and geography and bundle errands into one route. If a task is better done another way, I bring in a vetted professional, such as a licensed driver or a courier, and supervise it myself. If I am full, I will say so, and give you the first available date.

What if ten different people have equally urgent tasks on the same morning?

I take on only as many clients as I can serve personally, so a morning like that should not happen. If it does, I triage by what truly cannot wait, and I tell everyone, right away, what I can do and when. For the rest, I bring in vetted professionals and supervise them myself. No one is left guessing.

Why can no one else copy this?

Anyone can buy a car and hire a driver. No one can buy twenty years of trust. I am a New York attorney with my license and my name on the line every day. I have run complex matters across borders and through political upheaval, and I keep every client behind a steel wall. The errands can be copied. The trust cannot.

What won’t you do?

I will never do anything illegal, unethical or sketchy, for anyone, at any price. I am a New York attorney, and I say no early, politely, and without drama. It is part of why clients trust me with everything else.

Do you have insurance?

Yes. I carry auto insurance and general liability insurance, and I will arrange a bond where a client requires one.

What is your ten-year plan?

A lady never tells her secrets.

The first 15 minutes are on me.

Tell me what you would like off your plate, or what has gone wrong. I will tell you plainly whether I am the right fit, and what it would cost. The 2027 Hamptons season is open to book now.

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By phone or Google Meet. Tuesday to Thursday.
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Prefer not to use a form? Many people abroad and in diplomatic service do. Email me and I will send you the checklist.

Follow along
Build in public. Serve in private.
I am documenting how I build a new kind of attorney-led concierge. Client matters stay behind a steel wall: I never post anything that could hint at who my clients are or what I do for them.
[email protected] · +1-929-996-5662 (call, text or WhatsApp)

Vendors and strategic partners

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I am building a short list of vendors that I call first, from florists, caterers and private chefs to cleaners, tailors, drivers and home-service specialists in New York City and the Hamptons. I am also open to conversations with strategic partners who share the standard. If you would like to be one of them, please reach out and we can discuss terms.

Concierge services and legal services are separate. Conversations about concierge matters are confidential but are not attorney-client privileged. Regulated work, such as notarization, medical care, transport and staffing, is performed by properly licensed third parties whom I coordinate, and third-party costs are approved by you in advance. I do not guarantee the work of independent vendors. Where a matter calls for legal advice or representation, I act as your attorney through the Law Offices of Sonya Shaykhoun, Esq., under a written engagement agreement. Nothing on this site is legal advice. Attorney Advertising. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome.
Girl with a Car – Roving Butlers™ is a registered d/b/a of Sonya Shaykhoun, Esq., registered in the State of New York. © 2025–2026 Sonya Shaykhoun, Esq. All Rights Reserved.